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Are you Pale Or Tanned?

And would you date a girl/boy who was tanned over a girl who was pale?

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Im only asking because Im pale and guys go off me because Im pale lol :(

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I'm naturally porcelain white, personally I don't see what the big deal is about having a tan. If it's natural then that's fine but I think it's sad people trying to change their skin colour from what they were naturally born with. To an extend i'd find it rather insulting if someone objected to my skin colour. It seems rather hypocritical to me after all you wouldn't moan at a black person cos they are dark skinned to why the fuss about being naturally pale skinned? If guys aren't going put with you cos of your skin colour then they are very daft and not the type of guys worth bothering with in the first place. You're bound to find a nice mature fella eventually who likes you exactly the way you are

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• I am naturally pale, but I use tanning lotions that you can get from wal-mart.
  
  Guys like you for who you are, and based off of your picture, you are beautiful, and you should not have a problem with guys not liking you. and guys really dont even pay attention to how tan or pale you are, as long as you are an awesome person, you shouldnt have a problem

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• I was tanned, it's now getting on for winter so I'm getting paler.
  
  And it all honesty it depends, some people suit pale skin, some don't. People with red hair generally don't tan, but that wouldn't stop me from going for a red head over a blonde if I liked him more. It's about personality - not appearence
• Okay i can answer the first Q, lol im light tanned, in bright light my face skin looks white but in normal light it looks tan. and idk certain ppl look nice in white pale skin and certain ppl look good tan. If ur a girl and is pale then u might have that quiet frail pettie kind of look if u were tan then u would look like the type to go to the beach and have lots of fun.
• I'm pale and I LOVE being pale. It took me a long time to accept the fact that my body's version of a tan is still very light and I'm not going to be dark like my friends. That's cool with me now, everyone is different. Learn to love it and rock your pale skin.
• Im pale never get tanned just sunburnt :S and when the sunburns over no after tan just pale AGAIN! id say it wouldn't really bother me if the guy i dated was pale or tanned i would prefer a natural tan tho or just pale anything other than natural is stupid.
• My upper body is tanned, the rest pale. I am running all day long around the house and garden in my jeans only.
  I would date a nice girl either pale, or tanned, optionally half pale / half tanned.
• im like right in the middle but i want to be tan but that's almost imposable in Washington it rains so much. and i dont think it matters in a guy but if i had to choose i would choose tan
• Natural is best.
  Paleness due to skin bleaching is unnattractive.
  Fake tans are unnattractive.

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• i am kinda in between. i tan so so so much on holiday, then when i get back it all fades and i'm left with orangey browny legs, brown arms and a pale face! not nice!
• I'm naturally tan, that's the lucky thing about being latina!
  I've dated the palest guys and I've dated tann guys. It doesn't matter to me.
• ginger and pale.
  even when i go on holiday i spend my time hiding in shade and am incapable of getting a tan (well unless you count burning up like a bright red lobster)
• im slightly tan from a summer of being outside but as one of the few white girls at my school im pretty pale :). it really doesn't matter to me either way
• I'm pretty pale but not that white. I don't think I'd date a guy that tanned. If it was natural and not too tan I wouldn't mind but I'd probably prefer more pale.
• Im quite pale actually.
  I would rather date a pale person.
• I'm very pale.
  
  My boyfriend is asian (so his natural skin tone is tanned), and he LOVES my paleness :)
• I'm Very pale and it doesn't matter for me its about personality xx
• I'm brown. And a couldn't date a pale guy because... It's just not for me. I prefer tanned guys.
• im pale and i dont mind if a girls pale or tanned, they can still look good whatever they are.
• I'm very very pale, and my girlfriend is very tan.
  we look funny standing next to one another.
• In order:
  
  Pale
  Tanned.
• I'm tanned..
  
  I'll date a tanned or pale guy.. as long as they're hot!
• I'm pale. lol. But It's okay if I date tan or pale, it is not matter. (:
• I am pale.
  
  I don't really go for skin colour as a key feature in a partner...
• I'd much prefer pale. I hate tanning and don't find tans attractive.
• pale in winter tan in summer :)
• I'm white, with a tan.
  
  No I wouldn;t judge someone from their skin colour or fake tan.
• I'm Pale/Fair skinned
• Im pale...
  & tan or pale.....that doesnt matter.
• doesnt matter
• pale. I DONT WANT SKIN CANCER!!!

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